There is a dangerous error in sales methods that goes something like this: "People don't care how much you know until they know how much you care." If you cling to this phrase as the basis of your selling philosophy, then you should reevaluate your premises.
If you think you can win more sales by building better relationships, you are only partly correct. You win sales by bringing value and contribution to your customer. The best way to win the hearts and minds and loyalty of a client is to deliver value to them first, and let the relationship develop from there. If you focus just on building a relationship and neglect to solve a problem for your prospect, then you might end up becoming good friends with your prospect…and then you can watch how he will buy from your best competitor because your competitor showed how he could solve your client's problem.
A few years back there was a sales rep who befriended me. We would meet for lunch and drinks after work, and my wife and I would go to his house for parties. But when it came time to buy, I didn't choose him because he never showed me how his service could provide a tangible benefit for me. He did a great job at building the relationship, but I choose someone else who focused on the competency of bringing me an immediate and a long-term benefit.
This is a delicate balance, and I'm not saying that relationship skills aren't important. They are important, but only if you focus on solving some sort of a problem for your prospect first. There are three elements to establishing trust in the mind of a client, and they must be followed in this sequence. If you place the concept of relationship ahead of client value, then you will be quickly relegated to the category of a kiss-up whose heart might be sincere but whose delivery is devoid of any value.
Remember that people make decisions on an emotional and a personal level, and if you can find out how to solve a problem which affects that senior-level decision-maker on a personal level, you not only will get the business, you will get a friend for life. And that is the real secret to developing long-term relationships. People don't care how much you know until they know how much you can solve their problems.
- Scott Love
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